Dating Guide For Men!

From the desk of Jonas L., Santa Monica, California

Sunday, December 21, 2003

Dear Friend:

It’s good to be skeptical and I congratulate you for doing your research. After all, there are literally hundreds of useless dating guides for men out there. Many of the dating guides out there promise the world, but deliver very little! Just 3 years ago, I was in your shoes:

Every weekend I would hang out at Los Angeles bars and nightclubs, hoping to find the right woman for me. After a couple of beers, I always had enough courage to walk up to a woman and drop a cheesy pick-up line. A 15-minute conversation and a $15 cocktail later, I would have a fake phone number. Thank you very much.

My dating approach back then was kind of hit and miss. I would hit on a dozen women every weekend, and if I was lucky, I’d get one or two real phone numbers. I always adhered to the “3-day rule” as so many other dating guides recommend, and would finally call to ask her out. I would then take her out to dinner at a fancy Italian restaurant and waste hundreds of dollars to impress my date. At the end of the evening, more often than not, my date would give me the same old excuse “I just want to be friends.”

Then I turned 32. I just had enough. I was getting too old – and quite frankly, sick and tired – of the Los Angeles bar scene. Why was dating so difficult? Dating is supposed to be fun and easy – not a blow to your ego and confidence every time you speak to a woman, right?!

So I browsed the web and ordered a dozen different dating guides from Barnes & Noble. Oh man, was I disappointed! Every single one of them was useless because they were either too theoretical or their dating tips just didn’t work for me. Let’s face it, a few cheesy pick-up lines, a $100 haircut and a $5,000 Armani suit will not turn me into George Clooney overnight. So I was back at square one.

At last, a college buddy of mine knew Dean George Kennedy very well, and suggested that I hire Dean to coach me. At this point, I had nothing to lose. I had to figure out how to attract women, so I hired Dean for a couple of one-on-one sessions.

When we sat down for our first one-on-one session, Dean surprised me. I was half-expecting him to give me list of conversation topics and pick-up lines. Then he would surely recommend a few personal stylists and hook me up with a personal trainer. I was wrong!

Instead, Dean spent the first two hours helping me a develop a personal dating strategy that would take advantage of my existing strengths. I finally discovered all the stupid mistakes that I've been making. I didn't have to change anything about myself. I only had to change my approach. Of course, Dean also suggested ways I can work on my weaknesses. But no cheesy pick-up lines to memorize! Just a realistic, fun and casual approach to dating. Dating is not at all complicated when you start looking at women and dating the way Dean does.

After 2 weeks working with Dean, my dating life changed 180°. I was no longer afraid to approach any woman, anywhere. More importantly, after my sessions with Dean, I had a much better understanding when and where it is easy for me to meet and attract women. Again, Dean helped me develop a personal dating strategy that takes advantage of my existing strengths. I used to hang out at bars and nightclubs all my life to meet women. Now I can meet women literally anywhere.

13 1/2 months ago, I met the woman of my dreams at Starbucks. I had maybe 2 minutes before she got her coffee and would leave to meet her. Panic? Yes, in the past I would panic and not even try to pick her up in the first place. But after my sessions with Dean, I knew exactly how to approach a perfect stranger and start a conversation without setting off her defenses. I wasn't "picking her up", it was a casual and natural encounter - exactly how women like to meet guys. We've been together since...if you take a closer look at her, you'll realize that I couldn't be luckier!

Dean charges several thousand dollars for his one-on-one coaching and matchmaking services. Trust me, they are worth every single penny! Today, you have the unique opportunity to get the same powerful information of the Zen System for a fraction of what I paid. Don't miss this opportunity of a lifetime!

Best wishes,

Jonas L.