Dating
Expert - Andrew E. Pope (andy).
The Zen Series was the brain child of co-creator Andrew Pope.
Prior to creating this amazing break-through, Andrew has had a
string of lifelong successes beginning with noted accomplishments
in school. Just to mention a few, Andrew graduated close to the
top of his class as an undergraduate and in business school both
at Ivy-league schools. He had several successful stints as a
management consultant turning around poorly managed businesses,
raising capital for start-ups, and serving as the youngest member
of the boards of advisors to several companies including a few
Hollywood production companies.
Andrew, however, found
himself lacking in the area of life that he was beginning to think
was the most important – that is: attracting, dating, and
connecting with super attractive, young, cool, smart, interesting
women. Andrew’s dating career was dismal. When he finally got the
attention of beautiful women, he was instantly cast into the
dreaded “friend” category. Andrew was determined to change this
aspect of his life. After studying dozens of books on dating,
relationships, conversation, sex and love – almost all of which
Andrew found to be astonishingly poorly written and researched –
Andrew determined that someone had to make a “scientific” study of
dating and attraction and apply the principles of social
psychology, cultural mores, and life-long experience to the real
world of dating. This reality is created by throngs of women who
read magazines like Cosmo as if they were the “Bible.” This is a
dating environment that can be extraordinarily harsh, especially
for a “nice” guy like Andrew.
It was nearly five years ago
that Andrew made it his life project to “study” the process of
attraction. Andrew knew that in life things happen for a reason,
not by chance. It is obvious that Tommy Lee (and other rock
stars), George Clooney (and other rich, famous movie star-heart
throbs), Donald Trump (and other grossly wealthy womanizers)
always have had, and always will have their pick of the world’s
most beautiful and extraordinary women. But what Andrew set out to
determine was what an average-looking guy like himself – who was
not famous, who was not wealthy – could do to attract and date
really beautiful and extraordinary women.
Andrew knew that the best
way to speed up this learning process, as in any area, is to find
a “mentor.” Find someone who already possesses the skills that
Andrew hoped to master. Study that person – study what they do,
how they do it. See what that person does that works and try to
learn those skills and apply them. Forget Trump, Lee, and Clooney
– they don’t need skills. The search for this mentor was not
difficult for Andrew; his college buddy Dean George Kennedy was
one of the most successful men he had ever seen. On campus, Dean
was notorious. Women were always talking about him. He dated the
most attractive girls in college. Guys would vie for his
friendship – they knew he was the ultimate wingman. His success
with women continued far intohis post-graduate years until he
recently fell in love with and married an amazing woman.
When Andrew called Dean to
“pitch” the idea of co-authoring the Zen Series they met at a hip
sushi restaurant. As the stunningly hot, bitchy hostess sat them
at a table Dean shot her a smile and she blushed. In one instant
Dean had turned her from hot-bitchy-hostess to embarrassed
school-girl. Andrew thought “that never happens to me.” This was
the guy Andrew had to study. |
Dating
Expert - Dean George Kennedy (dean)
Dean grew up in Manhattan, attended an Ivy-league university and
has had a successful career as a stock-broker. Dean is the type of
guy who walks into a room with a contagious smile, outstretched
arms, and instantly makes new friends. As good as his skills are
for making business contacts, he is an absolute “babe magnet.”
Dean does not have tons of cash, he is good looking but not a
model (he is not the type of guy who turns women’s heads when he
walks into a room). Dean is not an aggressive overbearing macho
guy. He has a quiet confidence and the ability to make friends in
almost any situation. Dean can instantly turn a simple
conversation with a woman instantly into a flirting session. He
just intuitively knows how to create chemistry with almost any
woman he meets, from the middle-aged grocery clerk to the hottest,
bitchiest hostess at the hippest new restaurant. Dean is a
super-nice guy, but never falls into the “friend trap.” Rather,
friends of the girls Dean dated vied for his attention–and not as
“friends.” Dean loves the chase, and always has. He devoted much
of his high-school, college, and post-grad years to it. He is now
happily married to the sweetest, most beautiful surgeon we have
ever met and they have a two-year old boy.
Dean has always been an
educator at heart – never before as a profession, but he has
always enjoyed teaching and helping others develop skills. Dean
has taught numerous seminars in financial planning, taught
after-school math and English programs to underprivileged school
kids, was a soccer coach and is a huge fan of the self-improvement
gurus like Tony Robbins, Stephen Covey, etc. Dean had always had
in the back of his mind that he would like to author a
“self-improvement” book. It was not until Andrew “pitched” the Zen
Series idea to him that he saw dating as the subject matter in
which he could contribute. |
Dating
Expert - Cameron Skye (cameron)
Cameron is a 30-year old marketing and promotions guru residing in
Los Angeles. She was born in the mid-west, but has traveled
extensively world-wide as a model for top brands and agencies. Cam
gave up modeling to pursue a degree in marketing and
communications from UCLA, where she was Vice President of her
graduating class and President of her sorority. Since graduating,
she has worked in brand management and marketing for two major
clothing designers and one well-known vodka manufacturer. She is a
free-lance writer for some of the top fashion magazines and often
writes columns on relationships. Cam is the ultimate insider when
it comes to the thinking, wishes, fantasies, and desires of single
women. Not only does she have a wealth of her own experience and
offers her own perspective, but also she has access to hundreds of
girlfriends making her contributions to the Zen Dating Series
unparalleled. We approached Cam with the idea of her participating
with us because we both knew her to be the woman with the hottest
girlfriends, the woman who was invited to the hottest parties in
town and elsewhere, and the woman with access to the action behind
the velvet ropes. More than anything Cam gives us an insider's
perspective on the women we all want to date. |